Qualities that turn me on
(someone I love must have at least two or three)
1. Intelligence
2. Beauty, elegance
3. Douceur ('gentleness, sweetness')
4. Glamor, celebrity
5. Strength
6. Vitality; sexual enthusiasm; gaiety; charm
7. Emotional expressiveness, tenderness (verbal, physical), affectionateness.
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